Guy Fetters aka Parsifal had a mother and 2 sisters, one had children. I've recently found out that he left at the age of 14. My oh my that is so young and I wouldn't know how could he survived it. It didn't state whether he ran away or just respectfully walk away. The only evidence was a postcard from his mother that sounded so warming and that was greatly missed. I question what was Parsifal's reason to leave his family at a young age and how did he survive to support himself. It would be painful to find out if it was all negative. In addition, I cannot imagine what would it feel like if a mother does not keep in touch with her children at least. My mother and I need to speak to each other at least every other day. Just even thinking about her makes me miss my family terribly.
Furthermore, Sabine arranged on meeting Parsifal's mother and sister. If they could see his grave at least and say their good-byes. I don't think I've met someone that has done something like this, but I've known some people who didn't even say their good-byes. For instance, my uncle Tom, who is my dad's brother that I've only met through the phone and that was so many years ago. I have no knowledge of who he is and just know a minimal amount of information such as where he lived and a pic or two of how he looked like. I am pretty sure that my uncle never really had the chance to say good-bye to my uncle Oscar who passed three years ago. My dads family doesn't keep in touch because of their selfishness and ignorance. I really don't like them, but it is sad that I'm still meeting some of them.
Anyway, I found great information that Phan is part Vietnamese and French. A unique combo of ethnicity, it must be really different culturally. I've wondered if he was born in the United States. Moving on, Parsifal's family finally flew over to visit and as soon as they landed, they went straight to the grave after visiting Sabine's new home. Parsifal's mother questions about the pictures of Phan around the house and the marriage of Sabine. During the visit of the grave, Parsifal's mother questions about Phan's grave and said without hesitation that his son was so generous to give a plot to Phan and Sabine instantly replied that it was Phan who gave the the plot. This is where I believe the puzzles began to piece together and I feel that the mystery will soon be exposed.
I was so surprised when I found out about Parsifal's past--it seemed like he completely erased it. I am always revisiting my past.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you Mrs. Chase. Sometimes I am thinking he just overreacted and just a bit stubborn, but the thing is I really do understand him
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